A NEW DAWN IS HERE

Inauguration Day 2009
Welcome to the White House
President-Elect Obama and Vice President-Elect Joe Biden

The theme for Inauguration Day is "A New Birth of Freedom," in honor of the 200th anniversary of Abraham Lincoln's birth.

Create New Confidence In You

If you lack self esteem and are low in self confidence then you most probably spend too much time wishing you had the confidence to act and behave in the way people with high self esteem do.
If you desire to be happier and get more from life, increasing your self confidence and self esteem is the key .
1. Explore and exploite Your Good Qualities.
If you like something about yourself, give that area more priority over the others. For example; I love my eyes, so when I look in the mirror, I look directly into my eyes first, then I do a wander over of the rest of my body before returning to my eyes. If you like your nose, then do the same. Try making a mental list of the things you like about yourself, no matter how small or insignificant they may be. Then focus on these things, the rest is just insignificant. If you can learn to like yourself for your strong points, then others will find it much easier to do so as well.
2. Learn to Accept Compliment.
It is very hard to accept a compliment from people and not to dismiss it as being kindness. Someone has an opinion and it should be respected, even if you do not argree with it or beleive it ,. If people think good about you then maybe you should too.
When you have a perception of yourself or a view , or even a long term belief , for example you think you dont look good, and someone tells you different, how often do you change your point of view or perception in yourself ? My guess is , almost never. If you feel like you have done something well, and someone agrees with you by complimenting you on it, then your feelings were justified. However, if you think you have not done as well as you would like to have done , and someone compliments you on it, you will just pass it off as someone trying to be nice. When people believe something they look for examples that validate their beliefs as true. If you get something that invalidates your beliefs, then you just dimiss it off. Compliments will do no good until you are confident enough or believe in yourself enough to believe them.
4. Value Your Decisions.
It is true to say that People respect those who respect themselves,so never give other people a reason to laugh at you by starting the laughter. If you make fun of yourself, other people will validate it. If you think you’re ugly, other people will think you’re ugly.
5. Never Put Yourself Down.
If you promote negative aspects in your life you are only reinforcing your low self esteem. If you want to improve your self esteem. Ask yourself sincerely and honestly, how can I improve my self esteem. The answer will always be, find one positive thing about yourself and that will do it.
The more you practice the more likely you will create a positive aura which is commonly known as charisma. Creating a positive aura will benefit you in every thing you do. You will create a warmer ambience with your family. You will be more successful in your career. You will notice a difference on how people perceive you.

MOTIVATION AND INSPIRATION OVERCHARGE

Motivation - Are You Too Focused
Focusing on your future goals is, in general a good thing. It’s good to have a clear sense of direction and targets. Even so, in certain circumstances, this can actually lead to de-motivation, the opposite effect to that which could normally be expected.
The problem can appear when you are tightly focused on your desired outcome and either not achieving it or, perhaps, not achieving it fast enough. When you are only thinking about what you want to happen in the future your brain will create explanations as to why this hasn’t happened and isn’t happening.
In this situation it’s easy to replay past failures, previous bad luck and even to start wondering if your perceived personal deficiencies are an influencing factor. You may become jealous of your competitors, you may even start making excuses and then you’re on a downward spiral and you could lose self confidence. This might impact upon not only your current project but future endeavours.
At times such as this you need to smash the destructive thought pattern by setting aside a little time to reflect upon your achievements and nurture your attitude of gratitude. Make a list of your previous triumphs, your proven strengths and think about the advantages that you already enjoy in comparison with others less fortunate. This will rapidly boost your confidence and put you in the correct frame of mind to achieve your goals.
The important thing here is not to become smug or complacent but to develop the belief and positive attitude you need to go forward and win. You are going to use your current track record as a platform to realise your future goals. You deserve to succeed.

INVEST IN ME: LAW OF ATTRACTION

INVEST IN ME: LAW OF ATTRACTION

POSITIVE ACTION

TAKING THE FIRST STEPS IN ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS , MEANS YOU HAVE TO HAVE A LONG AND PROPER LOOK AT YOURSELF , YOU MUST BE TRUE TO YOUR OWN SELF , AND YOU MUST HAVE THE COURAGE TO BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF AND THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT LIFE , YOUR LIFE AND THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT IT ALL , ONLY THEN WILL YOU IDENTIFY THE TRUE VALUES IN YOUR LIFE , THESE ARE THE VALUES THAT YOU NEED TO BEGIN THE PROCESS OF ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS , FOR THE INSIRATION YOU NEED OR THE MOTIVATION YOU WANT, I'M THERE FOR YOU 100%, ALL YOU NEED TO BRING ALONG TO THIS PARTY IS YOUR HONEST SELF, IT IS HARD TO DO THIS AND IT TAKE ALOT OF COURAGE AND BRAVERY WITHIN , TO ADMIT EVEN PRIVATELY TO OURSELVES , I WANT YOU TO BEGIN THIS JOURNEY WITH A LITTLE SEARCH INWARDS................

THINK ABOUT THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY ,FILL YOU WITH REGRET , REPULSE YOU , OR EVEN MAKE YOU PHYSICALLY SICK , OR JUST FILL YOU WITH REGRET.

NOW WRITE DOWN THESE EMOTIONS AND READ THEM OUT TO YOURSELF ALOUD

THEN TELL ME WHAT YOUR REACTION WILL BE IF , "A GOOD FRIEND OF YOURS TOLD YOU THAT THIS WAS HOW THEIR PARTNER MADE THEM FEEL ON A DAILY BASIS , DAY IN DAY OUT."

SO WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO THIS FRIEND.............................. .............I GUESS YOU WONT WANT THEM TO PUT UP WITH IT ONE MINUTE LONGER , IN SOME CASES IT WILL BE CLASSED AS ABUSE , IF IT WERE A WORK PLACE MATTER SOME JOBS WILL BE LOST AND PROBABLY A LAW SUITE INSTIGATED AGAINST THE EMPLOYER OR CO - WORKER, NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO MAKE YOU FEEL THAT BAD , SO ASK YOURSELF WHY DO YOU PUT UP WITH IT, YOU CANNOT CHANGE YOUR WHOLE LIFE IN ONE GO , BUT YOU CAN CHANGE ONE THING AT A TIME .

WELL DONE YOU HAVE FIGURED THIS ONE OUT , THE NEXT STEP IS THE DOING , AND THIS IS WHERE I COME INTO YOUR LIFE, I WILL MOTIVATE YOU AND INSPIRE YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY, I WILL WORK WITH YOU TO THE END JUST LIKE A SILENT PARTNER , JUST GIVING WHEN ASKED AND NOT INTERFERING IN YOUR EVERY DAY LIFE, I REMAIN AT THE BACKGROUNG , IM THE FOR YOU WHEN YOU NEED ME TO BE , FOR THIS EXCLUSIVE SERVICE JUST SUBSCRIBE TO MY BLOG BY EMAIL AND GET ALL THE FREE UPDATES AND A HOST OF OTHER INSPIRATIONAL AND MOTIVATIONAL GOODIES

IT IS TIME TO RECLAIM YOURSELF FROM THE THINGS HOLDING YOU BACK , IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO START ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS

FINAL THOUGHT OF THE DAY

THE HORSE EXPERIENCE:

WITH HORSES , LIKE IN LIFE , IF YOU DONT KEEP FOCUSED , AND ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT WITH THE RIGHT INTENTIONS , YOU WILL NOT GET WHAT YOU WANT , OR NEED OUT OF THE EXPERIENCE.

SIMPLE BUT TRUE , THINK ABOUT THIS AND , FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME BY EMAIL